Monday, August 29, 2011

魂兮归来

这么美的图,配上这么耸人的标题,内容会是什么呢?
我想公布数据,因为不确定前阵子的鬼节,在这里扮鬼扮怪的,到底是我们的老同学,还是路人甲……。
我们一起来研研究究,各自解读吧~ :P

老吉兔
我看最近风声很紧,俺奉劝大伙儿还是少提那个"diam"字眼.不然的话 BOLEHLAND 的情报部将会"请"咱们去喝免费咖啡啦! (我赶紧留言就是担心芩嫂也来爽爽再提这个敏感东东) 04 Aug 11 15:12 (IP: 60.50.129.218)

等待漂白的外劳
我发现这里长满了野草,需要请我来除草吗?? 09 Aug 11 12:47 (IP: 60.50.240.236)

祝英台
死佬,七月十四都过完了,你还不舍得回家啊? 15 Aug 11 14:31 (IP: 60.50.251.52)

珍
Hello, 不要搞到这里阴风阵阵的……:( 15 Aug 11 21:37 (IP: 175.139.97.129)

梁山伯
哎呀,我都还没有玩够,干嘛这么早回呀? 16 Aug 11 07:22 (IP: 115.133.233.71)

阿飘
.... (随风飘过) 16 Aug 11 14:35 (IP: 60.49.106.119)

张国荣
你在叫我吗? 20 Aug 11 09:47(IP: 60.50.247.13)

祝英台
照片可以放久,只是看到吃不到..那才是不爽 23 Aug 11 14:31 (IP: 60.49.110.54)

亨利
我觉得。。。在这里无论你说甚麽,如何台杠,发出呛声也好,都应该给于最基本的尊重,人身攻击就不好!同学,我是善感,并不多愁!哈哈! 25 Aug 11 01:34 (IP: 180.73.25.138)

老同学们,看出端倪了吗?

Saturday, August 27, 2011

火花·火花·火花

昨天在活动上遇见认识多年的一位老师,他笑着说,以我柔弱的形象,不会有男人对我粗声粗气,我立即摇头说,其实我经常被男人欺负!
前晚下班后去滨海区开会,由于忙不完手上的工作,加上塞车,晚餐是在同事车上吃的。没想到开会开到一半,当我回拒一些不可行的要求时,那些男人突然变脸,以开玩笑的口气冷嘲热讽,我当场傻住了,那些新村男人的每一句话都像一支箭,狠狠刺中我的心。
当晚,我的老大和当地的主任另有要事临时不出席,我和一位年轻的男同事参与会议,不知道是不是女人好欺负,那些难听的话全对着我来说,这时,突然接到儿子的短信说,姐姐还没回家。天啊!
原本女儿傍晚发短信说是跟老师吃饭,吃到晚上9点多还不回家,我有点慌了,打去那个陌生的手机号码,听到女儿的声音,又转给老师听,我再也忍不住大发牢骚了。老师,你搞什么?!后来才知道那是老师在学校的最后一天,老师原是某学会的负责老师,跟学会主席的女儿感情特好,互吐心事才会拖延到这么晚。
重新回到会议室,听到男人还在嘲讽,我转身收拾文件说:你们用这种方式跟我说话,我不想浪费时间,对不起,我们先走了~
当然,那些男人异口同声说开玩笑的,我还是带着不愉快的心情回家。翌日拨电给其中一人,说出自己的感受,请他珍惜我们的诚意,活动办得好不好,我也不在乎了。
每个人都有底线,说话直来直往,美其名为开玩笑,听的人根本笑不出来,无论如何,我还是给他们第二次机会,也给自己一个空间,化解不愉快的情绪。
这就是我繁琐工作的一部分,人际关系。可幸的是,在很火的时候不必强装笑脸,我让他们看到火花、火花、火花,在联手完成大任的时候,有智慧的,必定会有领悟。:)

PS:上图是我们在活动现场,有人传稿拍照有人忙协调活动,边工作边争取时间吃东西,整个团队很合作、相处很融洽,这是我最最最珍惜的,也是活动顺利进行的最关键因素。 %*^_^*%

Sunday, August 21, 2011

多年以前,多年以後


看到琴把她和老公遊歐洲甜蜜蜜的照片"蒲"上去,今天翻舊照片時,看到這張在羅馬拍的照片,覺得很有趣。琴和老公是在斗獸場外面拍的照片,我是里面拍的照片,多年以前(四五年前吧),我到這個地方走走看看,四五年後,我的同學也來這個地方光觀。
我常跟朋友說,如果前生今世,我上輩子肯定不是中國人,因為我對中國很沒有好感,但是到歐洲時就很不一樣的感覺。
車子駛進羅馬時,可以用目瞪口呆在形容自己,震撼!感動!
在斗獸場里,我仿佛聽見人的嚎哭,動物的嘶吼。
走在數千年前古人走過的道路,心情起伏。
這是萬里長城給不到我的感覺。

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

大家來玩個遊戲


無意中找到一張舊照片,里面的人很多,但是有兩個人是大家熟悉的同學。
這是多年前還在採訪前線上,一群大牌明星來大馬宣傳不知道什麼冬冬時,有兩個人忙著採訪,大家各有各忙,互不理睬。
大家可能還可以在里面找到你們的偶象哦,看看這張照片,覺得年輕真好。
猜中沒有獎。

七夕,烟花燃亮夜空

七夕,又完成了一场大活动,烟花大会是压轴好戏。我们在度假村的日子很写意,是活动开跑以来最有“家”嘉年华feel的一场,因为我们在度假村吃火锅、打麻将、喝红酒,每天有公鸡叫醒。而山榴莲很便宜,肉质很厚实,美味~今年七夕,我们在山上办活动,晚宴谢幕好戏是烟花大会,散场的人群无不仰首望天,看到了一朵又一朵美丽的烟花在漆黑的夜空绽放异采,心情很兴奋,这时,我对身边的女人说:活动圆满结束了,你们的火花也该烟消云散了。
她由始至终说“我没生气”,但是从山下到山上,她一直在讲述那男人如何排斥她,我看到了他们之间的火花,特意在前一夜告诉他,活动正日就是七夕,牛郎织女一年一度相聚的日子,很难得,却又不便直言:对女人好一点,好吗?
自古以来,男人和女人之间少不了“火花”,有的是爱火,有的是怒火。她说他看不起女人,她堂堂一个主席,总是在他编排的节目或仪式中被搁在一旁。我在山下时对她百般同情,到了山上,却发现男人也很尽力,两人原本应相辅相成,却为了争权出位而暗中角力。身为过客,我只好旁观,有时好言相劝,有时一笑置之。
那天跟虹喝酒时,她说我到处去,应该会有人留意我,我说,我到处去骂男人,会留意也不会留好意,哈!
我很自觉是强悍型,在一众温柔敦厚的男同事当中,最勇于跟新村人交换“悍”语。我一心想把活动办好,我也珍惜与我共进退的同事,男人或女人,最重要的是齐心协力把工作做好的团队精神,在职场上,我经常要成就别人,工我做,功他领,忙得披头散发,站在前头拍照亮相的不一定是我,所以我能理解那女人的“委曲”。也许她没想过,主席也要别人来成就,善于分配,你不争我不抢,齐齐亮相、互相照应不是更好吗?
活动顺利完成,翌日下午我们就开车回吉隆坡,没想到数小时后,惊闻山上土崩,原住民村有人命伤亡。
生命无常,早一步或晚一步,结局可能完全不一样,男人和女人又何苦为小事而斗个你死我活呢?
这两张照片是上回在劳勿附近的村庄拍的,那里的榴莲很出名,当地同事盛情招待我们,大伙儿吃得很开心。

Saturday, July 16, 2011

昨夜星光灿烂

迈入25周年了,今年全年首回合共有6场义演,前几天顺利完成了5场,带着全新团队上征途,是很快乐的事。

昨天出发到亚罗士打时,巴士司机换了人,而昨晚是他第一次看演出,当歌手们在演出后穿越粉丝筑起的人墙回到巴士时,司机感叹大跌眼镜:这些人上巴士和上舞台,完全是两样!%*^_^*%

首4场义演是一气呵成的。709,我们心系都门,身在日利谷,果然有利于义演团,从手机新闻短信中看到了黄潮效应,心有戚戚焉。第4场义演在爱大华举行,没想到坐在我身边的红衣VIP就是709当天的主角之一,他说当晚10点钟才获释……。

团里换了好几张新面孔,明显没有太多舞台经验,有的心情万分紧张,幸好有经验丰富的舞群落力撑场,这些翩翩起舞的帅哥美女,俨然是日韩视觉系的,有的比歌手更抢镜,也有位年轻歌手舞艺超群,比舞蹈员更加舞功高强,一出场就听到一大票MM在尖叫。在超炫的灯光音响衬托下,载歌载舞的演出,令人大饱眼福和耳福。

我最开心的,是一位资深女歌手的归队,我们在巴士上聊起当年随团的趣事和糗事,不亦乐乎。另外,跟一位歌手约定“三点三”下午茶时间,喝到他亲手泡的香浓咖啡,心情愉悦。

明天,他们又要出发到笨珍了,我无法随行,因为家里没人照料,不得不将团务交给同事,小休一下,而其他活动也在紧锣密鼓的筹备中,没有一刻清闲。想起随团这几天的三点三,不是人人可以享有的,太幸福了。:)

Europe Trip.

We had planned for this tour of Europe as this would be the last chance that the whole family could go together. So we arranged for my son, Yi Hui, to fly in from US to meet us in Paris where we stayed for three nights. The apartment belongs to a French woman, Annie. She reminded us that the staircase is 130 years old and “you can break all other things in the apartment but not the staircase”.


The view of Paris with Eiffel Tower in the background was taken from the top floor of Galerie Lafayette, a well known department store. The dome of the store is something you need to see for yourself. It is so beautiful.


Of course, everybody has to see Eiffel Tower and maybe go up the tower for a bird’s eye view. To take this night scene means waiting until at least 10 pm as the sun sets only then. So it’s best to go to Europe in summer when you have lots of daylight for sightseeing.


We went to Nice by fast train, TGV. Only 200km/hour, not as fast as China’s train nowadays. And took a bus to this beautiful medieval village, St Paul de Vence. All old stone houses and cobbled lanes. Only a few hundred people live here but 2.5 million visit.


Next stop, Rome with the beautiful Colosseum. Then it is pasta, pizza, pasta, pizza and pasta. Do you know that for a proper dinner they have appetizer, first meal (pasta), second main course (meat) and then dessert and coffee. We only manage one. Of course Euro prices.


Venice is full of tourists and hot, hot and hot like Malaysia. And nice Gondola rides for deep pocket tourists. You won’t think that Italy is facing some economic crisis.


We were in Pisa, of course, to see the leaning tower and the other monuments in Miracle Field. Most of the monuments have been spotlessly cleaned of all the accumulated dirt everywhere in Italy with some in progress.

Florence with the famous Ponte Vecchio in the background has mostly jewellery shops on the bridge. The designs are all so exquisite, so Italian. Plenty of leatherware shopping also in Florence. The Uffizi Gallery is on the right where you can see the original Michelangelo’s David, while the copy is outside at Signoria Square.


After a week in Italy, our last stop was in Milan and the next morning was an early train ride to Tirano at the border of Italy and Switzerland, where we boarded the 4 hours scenic train ride, Bernina Express, through the Swiss Alps to Chur. The scenery was postcard perfect. And then to Lucerne where we stayed at this beautiful Swiss Chalet by the lake, where everything creaks, because it is an old timber house. You could almost imagine a cuckoo bird coming out from a window.



To the top of the mountain at Mt. Titlis, 10,000 feet. And you will think that you are in Kashmir and China at once. Indian tourists and you can hear Putonghua. There is only a sprinkling of pale faces. In fact, Switzerland seems to be the favourite country for Indians as they were there by the bus loads and train loads. But Chinese, they are everywhere on tours and traveling on their own.


Swoosh, an overnight train from Zurich to Cesky Budejovice in Czech Republic, the original home of Budweiser Beer, for those beer drinkers. Cesky Krumlov, about an hour’s train ride is a World Heritage Site with a lot of beautiful old houses and buildings and a castle to see. And lots of Chinese tourists.


Prague with the famous Charles Bridge is most enchanting with a big castle complex on a hill at the back. Czech Republic is the most economical country compared to Central Europe. Prices are like Malaysian. They use Koruna (CZK), but if you are ever there, it is better to use Euro as you get a better deal than exchanging Euro into Koruna.


On our way from Prague to Munich, we stopover in Salzburg, where the movie “Sound of Music’ was filmed. Visited the Mirabel Garden with the view of the Salzburg Fortress on the hill in the background.

In Munich, we made day trips out to see the fairy tale castle, Neuschwanstein Castle. The picture was taken from Marien Bridge which is across a ravine from the Castle. No photographs were allowed to be taken of the interior. The furnishing were fabulous which included a million pieces of mosaic laid out in designs and a modern sitting wc built in the 19th century.


Rothernburg Ob Der Tauber, which means Red fortress above the river Tauber, is an old medieval town and one the best preserved in Germany. When we were there, the townsfolk were celebrating the festival Meistertrunk for an event that happened in 1631 when the city council rescued the town by drinking 3¼ liter of wine in one gulp. The town is older than that, take another 500 years back.


The beers are so cheap in the supermarket anyway. But by the cafes in the squares it cost about 3-4 euros for 500ml. Hoegaarden wheat beer is still the best. Delicious and crispy German pork knuckles cost about 8 euros per portion. Not that expensive, although Munich is said to be the most expensive city in Germany.

A little side trip to Brussels to see the Mannekin Pis and the Grand Place in Brussels and to Bruges another medieval town worth many hours of walking.


Our last stop was in Amsterdam for a full 3 days of sightseeing. Plenty of picturesque canals in Edam, the cheese town. You could imagine having a nice cottage by the canal and sit in the garden in summer drinking tea and coffee and watch the ducks. Here (where else) the ducks would have disappeared into somebody’s kitchen!


And plenty of small, red lighted cubicles where the ‘wares’ are displayed and if you are interested you can strike up a bargain, enter and the curtains would be drawn for your sojourn. Mustn’t miss this when you are there. And the coffee shops where they don’t drink coffee but smoke hash! Hear that they would not allow tourists into these joints from next year onwards, so hurry up. We didn’t try though. But you can always have Argentinian steaks, plenty of Chinese food and the usual pizza and pasta. The Chinese are always there in the red light districts, don’t know why.

A number of the old buildings seem to be tilting and leaning like they will tumble at the slightest jolt of earthquake.

All in all, the train runs on time. When it says 2.22 it arrives at 2.21 and leaves exactly at 2.22. In the southern part of Europe, it was hot but gets cooler to the north. Intermittent rain was an irritant. In Amsterdam it rained, stop, rained, stop, rained, stop…….

This is the second time traveling through Europe by train for my husband and I. The first time (separately) when we were still young and single. I had traveled with Siaw Cheng in 1988. Would we go again? Of course and to other countries where we have not been like Spain and Portugal, Greece and the south of Italy. It is a good once or twice in a lifetime experience and much much better than traveling with a tour group. You will see much more at your own pace and at much lower costs. The world is so beautiful out there. Life is like a book, you need to read more than one page.